so this word can meet a lot of things, right?
it can mean you’re real w/ others…
you share the ins & outs of your experiences.
it can mean you’re real w/ yourself…
you don’t sugar coat what kind of experience you’re in or dealing w/.
vulnerability has looked different on me for different life chapters.
i had to be vulnerable when i admitted my 1st marriage was a failure.
i had shut my mouth about the whole situation i had been in for a 18 months & enough was enough.
my side of the story was deserved to be known.
but fear escape more than my strength.
i had to be vulnerable to get back to into shape knowing i wanted to perform again.
i hadn’t been taking care of myself bc of my lack of care.
but i deserved better.
i started to take charge.
i had to be vulnerable to my now husband in telling him all my secrets.
i didn’t want to leave anything out or sugar coat anything i had ever done.
the truth always comes out & if i wanted this to last, he needed to know everything.
that fear started to fade & i was accepted & loved for being me.
i then CHOSE to be vulnerable when i decided to share my journey w/ PCOS bc
1) i want ppl to stop asking “when are you going to have a baby?”
but also 2) bc someone out there maybe has dealt w/ the same thing
& guess what?
THEY HAD.
ppl came (from my perscpective) out from nowhere telling me they had PCOS or hormonal imbalances too!
& i DEFINITELY had to be vulnerable when we decided to share the loss of our baby boy.
that was the most painful experience i’ve ever had to endure…
& i can’t imagine having not shared it.
& the amount of response about being open & how some have gone through the same thing again, too…
IT’S WHY I STARTED THIS BLOG.
to be vulnerable.
to be an open book.
to use this to help others while also allowing myself the therapy to speak freely.
& now i thrive in vulnerability.
i shared a photo w/ ya’ll that i didn’t want to.
it ain’t cute (from my perspective).
the things i wore on stage during biketoberfest this past weekend had me feeling vulnerable FOR SURE.
but it was bc of the journey i’ve climbed through that allowed room for that comfortability.
i’m not here to show you all the highlights.
i want to show you the lowlights.
no – i’m not talking about hair.
social media is made for the highlights, right?
or for the businesses of business.
i use mine for both!
but i also want to use it for realness.
i want to be authentic.
i want to be taught & humbled.
i want to be told how i can become my best self.
i want to help others feel that power.
i want to show others that it’s possible to be fearful & faithful at the same time.
dude… the unknown is fucking scary.
it’s why i think ppl are afraid of the dark…
it’s the unknowwwwwn what’s “out there” in it.
& honestly? i think it always will be.
i think it always will be scary to…
take a leap of faith…
to put yourself out there…
to start your own business…
to leave your comfort zone…
to date someone you don’t feel you deserve…
to be real w/ the person you love in fear they won’t love you anymore…
to be real w/ others about how you feel…
to admit your health isn’t where is could be…
to face differences w/ your hormones you’ve never experienced before…
to accept yourself WHERE YOU ARE…
& that’s what i’m here to do w/ you.
i’m here to accept you where you are.
i’m here to tell you i gotchu.
i’m here to share an opportunity that i have that could help you more than you could possibly know or BELIEVE.
if you want more info on this, go over here.
i share the T.
i asked my team to share their definitions of the world “vulnerable”.
here’s some other perspective.
i hope it helps you in whatever chapter you’re in.
“getting comfortable being UNCOMFORTABLE.”
“being open, sharing yourself w/ someone, not knowing how they will react or perceive you.”
“exposing the parts of ourselves, inside & out, that we are most uncomfortable w/, or hold the closest.”
“not afraid to be you & speak your mind. being your true self, no matter what. everyone is always striving to be like others instead of themselves. we are all beautiful & should strive to be our best self which usually causes us to be vulnerable.”
good stuff.
i’m here to help you be open to change.
bc it’s inevitable.
bc it helps you grow.
bc it helps your future self.
bc it helps you become a better human being.
bc it helps you be open minded.
bc it helps you accept new.
be it helps you thrive in vulnerability.
if any of this resonates w/ you…
if you need any of this…
if you desire this type of community…
dm me.
text me.
call me.
facetime me.
or fill this out.
whateverrrr.
i’m here to cheer you on just as those who’ve been here since the beginning have cheered me on.
my gift isn’t “motivation”…
but i do work on my ability to find the right words & put them in a way where you leave w/ more inspo & info than you came into this w/.