i’m sure many of you have heard of marie kondo.
the japanese organizing consultant, author & tv host that is best known for sharing her concept of living a life that sparks joy.
this week, after some negativity, haters & spamming them (you may have seen my instagram stories… if not, i highlighted it)…
i decided to do whatever sparked joy.
especially after reading all the positive comments ya’ll had to share w/ me about this blog.
this blog sparks joy for me.
so regardless of how ppl feel about it…
imma write it.
just as much as i have the free will to write it do others have the free will not to read it.
that’s all.
in other words…
this week i was doing what i want (obviously w/ limits).
as i’ve watched our daughter evolve, i’ve noticed the little things.
the little things that widen her eyes… make her smile… pull her focus.
i’ve wanted to sit back & just let myself find joy in the little things.
so that’s what i did!
there have been so many “milestones” right before our eyes that if i didn’t “stop to smell the roses” i’d completely miss them.
she’s:
- started focusing on the animals dangling on her play mat
- loved looking at herself in the mirror
- outgrown many of her newborn pj’s & onesies (so anxious to see what she measures at during our next doc appt)
- has been able to focus on facetime calls w/ family members as they speak to her
- has recognized mommy & daddy’s voices to the point of smiling! (cue tears)
- loved listening to her papoo play piano & it’s actually calmed her down mid-fuss
- gotten better at tummy time & is now scooting herself forward
- put herself to sleep for her naps almost the entire week
- been in her crib for her naps
- has slept through the entire night (i’m talking 8 & 9 hrs 2 nights in a row!!!) PRAISE “taking cara babies”
these are precious & such a big deal to us! they bring us joy & they bring HER joy w/o her even realizing.
so w/ that said…
i asked myself:
“what can i afford to do or not do that would bring me joy?”
when i say “afford”, i don’t only mean money.
i also mean time, efforts, talent, etc.
i share these pictures below of my week of joys. 🙂
(theo was restless & barking one morning & our little girl needed “awake” time.
joy = walks around the neighborhood while it was overcast & not super hot!)
(transparency: hubs & i had a falling out in communication & plans for saturday. he had showings at the same time i had a gig. lesson learned.
joy = getting to bring little chickpea to my gig & having my bandmates gals take care of her while i got to watch her from stage. it was exhausting to feed & change her in between sets but so fun.)
(i forgot about this fabletics 2 piece i ordered a prebaby.
joy: it fits & made me proud of the work i’ve already put into my health & stamina regain.)
other joys that are included in my week but not pictured:
- mom getting home safe & sound
- applying for temporary work at my place of work which means entertainment & events are on the up & up!
- seeing friends be successful & creative
- catching up w/ friends about their lives these days
- seeing my husband have a great & busy real estate week
- getting answers for my dads diagnoses & potentially seeing the light at the end of the tunnel
- so many friends getting their vaccines
- entertainment mom communities
my joys may not be the same as yours, but i hope you take out something from this…
enough to find yours in case you haven’t.
slow down.
smell the roses.
listen to your gut.
do things that just make ya happy… that spark joy. 🙂